Patrick Niedermeyer
February 27, 1951 – March 6, 2026
Patrick Niedermeyer, 75, passed away peacefully in Kansas City, Missouri, on March 6, 2026, following a brief illness. A man of sharp wit and immense kindness, Patrick will be remembered for his dedication to education, his professional brilliance, and his legendary sense of humor.
Born in St. Louis on February 27, 1951, to George Joseph and Mary Jane Niedermeyer, Patrick was a standout student and athlete from a young age. At St. Louis Priory School, he excelled in the classroom and on the field, competing in cross country, basketball, track, and baseball. He carried this drive to Princeton University, where he graduated in 1973. During his years on the East Coast, he cherished the opportunity to spend time with his extended family in New York City.
Patrick began his career in the classroom, teaching mathematics and coaching high school sports in Connecticut and St. Louis. His ability to make complex equations accessible—paired with his natural leadership on the court and field—earned him several teaching awards and the lasting respect of his students. He later transitioned his analytical talents into a successful career as an insurance actuary and in computer programming.
Beyond his professional life, Patrick was a master storyteller. Known for his intelligence and an endless supply of jokes, he could brighten any room. He was a quintessential host who found great joy in gathering family and friends at his favorite Kansas City restaurants, sharing good food and laughter even into his final days.
Patrick was preceded in death by his parents and his brother, George. He is survived by his five siblings: Anne (Jerrold) Malinowski, Mary (George) Mills, Jeanne (Dave) Layton, Michael Edward (Virginia) Niedermeyer, and Brian Gerard (Beth) Niedermeyer. He also leaves behind 13 nieces and nephews, each of whom he held a special bond with and took great pride in.
The family extends their deepest gratitude to the ICU team at St. Luke’s Hospital for their dedicated and compassionate care, as well as the St. Luke’s Hospice team for their comfort during his final journey.
A memorial service will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests memorial contributions be made to a charitable organization of the donor’s choice in Patrick’s honor.

My family lived next to Patrick’s on Murdoch in St. Louis. We spent almost every day playing outside with his brothers and sisters. Those were good times. My condolences to his family. Dan Huggins.